I don’t have much to say, really, but I wanted to post tonight. So let’s see…
Elizabeth has been in VBS this week. She has loved it. Our church is really into getting the teenagers to serve in the church, so they are leading all the classes. In the 3yo class they have two male teenagers. Quiet ones at that. I love that they would take on the 3yo class but these two also seem like an odd choice. Tomorrow they are doing songs & skits for the parents. I was reading the sheet about it and E wanted me to read it to her. So I did. She then says to me “Parent, let’s wait and talk about this tomorrow. Its too much for me right now. Just too much.” Okay, then. Where in the heck did that come from?
Jim is off tomorrow. Yea!!
They put a playground in our front yard. Not directly in front of our house but a couple houses down. Its nice to have one close. The other closest ones were 10 minute walk and a 20 minute walk. On the other hand, it can be a little annoying as well because she sees it and wants to be down there all the time. We go down every evening after dinner and I try to get her down there a few mornings as well. There’s another mama who is down there most evenings. She has a little girl a little older than E and a little girl who’s a little younger than Ben. I really like her. She’s a cloth-diapering mama too! She’s really nice and we seem to have similar parenting styles. Thought I may invite them over for a play date.
Today I met a mama from LLL at Starbucks. I don’t know her well but, after last month’s meeting, we exchanged numbers. We didn’t do anything though. LLL was Tuesday night and I mentioned I’d be in her town this week, so we met up today. I had a good time with her, very relaxed.
We booked our trip home for September. We’ll be home just barely a week. It’ll be nice. But it also means that this deployment really is happening.
We’ve decided we’ll tell E about this deployment after we go to Indiana. She has no real sense of time, so telling her now would be nuts. And she gets SO anxious about things that are a long way off. So we’ll tell her when we are 3-4 weeks out.
This morning I woke up to her crying in my doorway. It was a 3yo whiney cry, so I told her to go find something to play while I slept a little more. She broke down. She wanted Jim. I told her to go find him. She said she looked everywhere but didn’t know where he was. Then I remembered he had to go in early today. I told her. And she really broke down. She was hungry but needed HIM to fix her breakfast. And she couldn’t eat cereal because he may want some. And he may be sad if she ate cereal without him. She didn’t want to eat at all but I finally got some food in her. And I just cried. I called him but he didn’t answer. And that made her cry even more. And me too. Its gonna’ be a long year.
My baby has a tooth! He’s been teething on and off for a couple hellacious weeks. One tooth has barely broken through the gums, just enough to feel the sharpness. And the other too is getting ready to break–you can see the ridges of it just under the gums.
I took a two hour nap this afternoon. I have a feeling I’m going to be awake late tonight!!
Truly, I have the cutest kids ever. Ever! ![]()
4 responses so far ↓
1 Jess // Jul 18, 2008 at 2:30 am
I am glad that E has liked VBS! I’m so sorry that she had such a hard time missing Jim. I can’t imagine how hard it really is for all of you sometimes. You have my prayers. Congrats to Ben on his first tooth!
2 jen // Jul 18, 2008 at 3:04 am
Don was gone so much when my kids were little like this that they just thought it was normal that he was gone. It’s so hard, and i so understand. *hugs* It gets easier…
3 Cory // Jul 22, 2008 at 6:01 pm
It’s so great finding other moms that you can click with, isn’t it? My friends and I have recently been getting together for playdates a lot, and it’s been great. All our kids are finally reaching the same age groups, and we’re all on the same “activities in the morning-naps in the afternoon” schedule. It’s fun, and it definitely recharges your batteries when you get to connect with other women/moms.
4 Lisanne // Jul 28, 2008 at 1:28 pm
Yes, you guys sure have our prayers, too. I can’t imagine how difficult things must be for you on a regular basis. Congrats to little Ben on his first tooth! Amazing how fast they grow!!!
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